"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."
That's so true... All of us, no matter what we say, deep down want somebody who will love us more than anything else in the world whose sun would rise and set on us; who would be ours....
Some of us are lucky that we have found that special someone, and some of us are still endlessly searchin for our "special" person....
Being loved by someone is what makes a person special... is the one thing that can bring immense happiness and unbearable pain... is the one thing everyone seeks.... is the one things that makes life a little bearable!
Love is a fantasy concept... but then again, everyone can use a little fantasy in life. Love as portrayed, does not exist... it is not a heart stoppin, sleep deprivin, starvin feelin.... it is somethin that grows on you. it's a feelin when u realise that havin a certain person in your life, makes your life more beautiful.... the knowledge that you can be secure in that someone is there.... the person with whom you can share your most embarrassin moments and they would just laugh and love you more...
love is the feeling that when you feel you can't possibly love a person more, they do somethin that you fall even more deeply in love... love is da feelin when the first person you wanna share somethin with, is him.... love is the feelin when you want to make him proud to be with you.... love is lettin yourself feel vulnerable... love is trustin someone unconditionally and believin in him...
love is the feelin when you fight with him and be miserable for days after... love is the feelin when you just want it to work, no matter what.... love is the feelin when you want to hate him, but you know you never can....
love is a beautiful emotion, so pure and so true, that if you don't have love, you aren't really livin life... cos love is what gives you moments that brings tears of joy (n sorrow too)... love is what gives you a lifetime of beautiful memories.... love is what makes you whole, not cos you are with someone, but cos that someone will always be there to hold you and love you, should you ever fall; and also he is the one who will push you to achieve your ambitions and be there cheerin you on...
Love is what makes you complete... love is weird....
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Love is beautiful .. :-) ...
ReplyDeleteCheers !!
Seriously.. love is so much?? pata hi nahi tha.. thanks for opening my eyes!!!! :P
ReplyDelete@rvnd : dude, u already feel all dat... but i won't say for who all... teri izzat ka faluda nahi banaungi!
ReplyDeleteBaba... nicely written...
ReplyDeleteeh? deep stuff! :) noice.
ReplyDeleteWhat about motherly love? I mean i dont mean to destroy the sanctity of ur article but cmon... what do u gain from luv....all emotions have a drawback.... happyness is shortlived.... sadness is forever.... jealosy is prominent....and empathy makes us human....luv makes u blind....why dont u see the flip side... why dont u see the flip side of humanity...why does it have to be all goody goody and primal..... U share ur embarrasing moment wid anyone he will remmember it as a weapon in his subconscious to get even when u stop luving that person....
ReplyDeletewat do u think abt a person whom u say u can never love again....wat happens to ur weird expression....
this suffers from basic features of lucidity...it is simply an expression of illusion....today ur feeling high...one day u wont....ur low self esteem is the right emotion which will describe ur humanity....
after a guy ditches u...do u want to kill him...do u wanna burn his pics....think of a hypothetical situation...i mean if u cant..ur article relies too much on delirium...and little on fact
however the thing u have written needs study so gud idea for a subject
user: It may be time for me to get off the internet.
ReplyDeletejabberwacky: You could get a new lease on life - if only you didn't need the first and last month in advance.
user: Cool.
jabberwacky: Don't you have anything else to say, mister?
user: Just that you have SUCH a way with words. It's like a time-line inheritance.
jabberwacky: 'Love' is a dangerous word. Don't throw it around like that.
@nada : yes... maybe what u say is true... but da prupose of da piece is not as u interpret it.... i was not on an emotional high when i wrote it, in fact quite da opposite... dat is what i felt when i went thru a situtaion when i thought i would have to live widout some1 i loved...
ReplyDeleteand it is not a filmy situation where i describe da feelin as one where u cannot live wid out dat person cos dat's crap... no1 is indispensable n u can live widout dem, if u have to. it's just a feelin dat u like havin dem around, a little more dan u like other ppl bein around.
n love doesn't make u blind... u choose to make urself blind. n if a person uses things dat u told him to hit back at u later, dat speaks volumes abt what a scum dat person is!
also, yes, unhappiness, jealousy n all dos emotions r der... but den rn't dey a part of any relationship, be it a friendship or anythin else. v don't have to keep love on such a high pedestal dat v fall off it. love does make u unhappy at times, but it gives u more moments of happiness n den it's ultimately upto u as to what u treasure more.
a mom's love is totally diff n i was not aimin to write abt dat.
Agreed. I like your point about choosing to be blind. But how often do we choose? There is an element of subconcience... I mean if you do not trust blindly the other person is dissapointed. they feel that luv has certain obligations. what is your take on that? does ur definition of love include obligations. im sure it does
ReplyDeletewhen i said u shouldn't put love on a pedestal, dis is what i meant... love has been potrayed as a super human emotion. v 4get dat in da end it involves 2 normal human beings so der r gonna be a lotta errors n bumps along da way. it's not a outta da world feelin...
ReplyDeletewouldn't u trust ur frnds? wouldn't u trust ur parents? da same way u trust da person u love.. n dey will hurt u along da way, cos dey r human... da imp thin is if dey realise dey have hurt u n make u feel better.
n every relationship has some obligations... so y should love be an exception to it.
luv is a human emotion and it has drawbacks... that is why i feel luv isnt dat weird... luv is straightforward....u find something in a person....maybe u want to depend on him...it may be a combo of emotions....u luv him because???
ReplyDeletewell we choose not to answer dat question because we are hiding the real motive behind either consciously or subconsciously... either way we need something..... it is analogous to saying dat ur trapped in an island wid a dog and u have no choice but to luv him..... the basis for human beings being social requires luv....as for friendhip and relations we have a similar social contract.... we choose only wat levels of contract we will keep.... wen we forget that our mental contracts are devious we become idiots....hence luv isnt weird...it is just an extended emotions dat we want to experience for selfish gains...and being selfish isnt wrong
no laxmi, u missed da entire pt... yes ppl r in diff relationships cos dey want somethin da other person... u r frnds wid ppl so dat u can have fun wid dem or u can depend upon dem... but u don't love all ur frnds...
ReplyDeletedat's y love is weird... it's like all other relationships, yet is diff...
how can u say u dont luv ur frnds?
ReplyDeleteU do luv dem.... If u dont and they know u dont they will feel bad...
for example u will say "luv u babes" to some one...is dat a disguised lie??
the world thrives on hippocrisy....the truth of the matter is that everyone misses the point.... all relationships need luv.... it is just a social contract which decides how much ur ready to sacrifice for that person...making luv a very simple emotion...it has boundaries and we just say it is boundless...I cannot see the logic behind calling it a superhuman emotion.... even in luv u expect something from someone else.... dat is something latent for many but very clear if u know what ur in and what u want from it....
i agree all relationship need love and der r diff types of love. i am just dealin wid 1 particular type here... n i call dis particular type weird... cos da others r realtively straight fwd... dis is da 1 in which ppl have astronomically high expectations n screw things up on der own cos dey r afraid to commit or afraid of a lotta things.. dis article was just my attempt to make ppl try to realise what r da more imp things in dat relationship...
ReplyDeleteHmm ok. Astronomical expectations makes sense....
ReplyDeletebut others are not so strightforward..i mean we all fite wid our parentz frnds et al.what makes this type of luv different is dat u make them like ur blood relative and u get intimate..the factor of lust is wat this article is missing...wen u bring in lust things will be more clear and then u can say dat this type of luv is weird
hmmmm... maybe....
ReplyDeleteI guess it's the only thing that takes to an all time high and brings you down the worst possible low the very next minute!!!
ReplyDeleteRightly said, it, indeed, is weird!!!